教养小孩不容易，每一位父母都努力地告诉孩子什么该做、什么不能做，美国有位妈妈分享一篇她亲自写给5岁女儿的「不可以清单」，竟因此被称赞为地表最棒家长!一起来看看她写了什么?

1.Don't apologize when someone else bumps into you.

当别人撞到你时，你不要道歉。

2.Don't say "sorry to be such a pain." You're not a pain. You're a person with thoughts and feelings who deserves respect.

不要说「对不起，我是一个麻烦」，你不是一个麻烦。你是一个有自己想法和感受，以及值得被别人尊重的人。

3.Don't make up reasons as to why you can't go out with a guy you don't wanna go out with. You don't owe anyone an explanation. A simple "no thanks" should be acceptable.

当你不想和一个男生出去时，你不要找理由拒绝。你没有欠任何人解释，你只要简单的回：「不，谢谢」。

4.Don't overthink what you eat in front of people. If you're hungry, eat, and eat what you want. If you want pizza, don't get a salad just because other people are around. Order the damn pizza.

在别人面前吃东西时，你不要想太多。如果你很饿，就吃吧!吃你想吃的任何食物。如果你想吃披萨，就点披萨!不要因为有其他人在，而改点一份沙拉。

5.Don't keep your hair long to make someone else happy.

你不要取悦别人而一直留长发。

6.Don't wear a dress if you don't want to.

如果你不想要，你就不要穿洋装。

7.Don't stay home because you don't have anyone to go out with. Take yourself out. Have experiences by yourself and for yourself.

你不要因为没有朋友而足不出户。你可以独自外出。创造属于你个人的经历也是为了你自己。

8.Don't hold back your tears. Crying means you're feeling something that needs to get out. It's not a weakness. It's being human.

不要压抑自己的泪水。哭泣代表着你有情绪需要释放。这不是脆弱。这是人的本性。

9.Don't smile because someone told you to.

不要因为别人叫你笑你就迎合他。

10.Don't be afraid to laugh at your own jokes.

不要害怕在你自己的笑话上大笑。

11.Don't say "yes" to be polite. Say "no" because it's your life.

不要为了礼貌什么事都说「好」。你可以说「不」，因为这是你的人生。

12.Don't hide your opinions. Speak up and speak loudly. You should be heard.

不要把你的想法藏起来。挺身而出并大声说出来。你的声音应该被听见。

13.Don't apologize for being who you are. Be brave and bold and beautiful. Be unapologetically you.

不要为了做你自己而向他人道歉。当一个勇敢的、无畏的、美丽的人。做理直气壮的你。

如果你有女儿的话， 你是否认可美国妈妈的观点呢？对于国人来说环境不一样，教育的方式也不太一样，不过总体来说都是家长们对自己孩子的爱，什么的处世之道，决定了孩子未来的生活方式。